Events are opportunities to either gain affection or experience unique moments with Characters. The latter mentioned are tracked and repeatable depending on the type.


Generic Events (Visiting)

Visiting locations without meeting requirements associated for any new event results in generic visits. They increase the affection towards a girl by 1. These events do not appear in the event tracker.

They have no specific color. They are repeatable through visting.

Main Events

Main events are events that further the main story of Lessons in Love and often feature multiple girls. Main events occur automatically once their requirements are met. Requirements for main events usually include being past a certain day, but also frequently include having seen other main and character events.

They have no specific color. They are repeatable in the Scene Replay.

Character Events

Character events occur when visiting a girl, either at their unique location or at the dorm rooms, calling them once you acquired their phone number or once certain requirements are met. Requirements for character events always include either an high enough affection stat, with requirements increasing in multiples of 5, or having seen other character events for the girl. Character events may also require you to have seen certain main events or character events from other girls.

They have no specific color. They are repeatable in the Scene Replay.

Invite-Over Events

Introduced with v0.9.0p2 you can invite girls over to your place. You will be able to invite a girl after you get to know her better and acquire her phone number. To fully unlock the option, you have to repeat it twice pergirl: first one is a friendly visit, second one is an Lust Event.

Since v0.13.0p2 you will able to invite over Chika, Ayane, Makoto, Futaba, Ami, Sara and Haruka.

Their color is skyblue. They are repeatable and give a choice between a friendly visit with different interactions or a lust event.

Lust Events

Lust events are character specific events that require a girl's lust stat to be high enough, with requirements increasing in multiples of 5. Lust events appear under a girl's event tracker in pink text and every witnessed lust event increases the girl's lust by 1. However, some lust trackers only unlock if the opportunity is taken. During the first time for each girl you will get to choose the nickname you want the girl to call you.

Their color is pink. Their first encounter are unique and repeatable in the Scene Replay. Subsequential events can be accessed through visiting the girls at certain places or times.

Missed Events

Your actions have consequences. Some choices you make will prevent you from seeing certain events, and other events have certain requirements that have to be met by a certain point in the game; failure to make the necessary choice, or to meet the necessary requirements in time, results in missing the event. In the event viewer, events that have been missed will appear with a different name and struck through in red text. There is no way to get an event once you have missed it; a new save is required.

Secret Events

Secret events are unique events which only appear when certain conditions are met and are initiated through unusual means. These events are hidden in the event tracker, appearing as "??????", until they are encountered, at which point their name will be revealed.

They have no specific color. They are repeatable in the Scene Replay.


It's general consense that it's less about grinding and more about getting a feel where to find new events. As of v0.9.0p2 it is unnecessary to have any girl higher than 50 with 25 to 30 being a good average.

  • Every girl's events for the most part involve being at increments of +5 affection or lust (5, 10, 15, 20, etc...).
  • It makes sense to frequent their usual Locations, including their Dorm Room. A few events trigger by talking to the girl in the hallway.
  • Visits may differ depending on mid-week or weekend and therefore trigger an event.
  • It's always worth to check calling girls on differing daytimes if available.
  • If that doesn't work, try working on a different characters events first

Some additional considerations are required for special types of events:

  • Invite-over events can only occur once you attained the girl's phone number.
  • Secret events are hidden and require other events first.
  • As mentioned in Missed Events you are unable to complete crossed-out events due to previous choices.

Please note that events can, although rarely, appear in differing order if their triggers allow so. Event A may come before Event B, however A has a requirement not met yet while Event B does. Therefore, Event B would take precidence.